Most people think you control a horse by controlling its head.
You put on a lead rope or a bridle and you use that to show the horse how
you want him to start and stop and turn and move his feet and disengage
this or that and other stuff. So how do you control a horse when you don't
have a lead rope or a bridle on him? Every day, there are a lot of people
chasing horses around in pastures asking that question.
A horse-logical training system like heeding teaches people how to control
the horse's mind. If you've got his mind, you've got the horse whether he's
loaded with tack or bare naked. It takes a very specific discipline to
learn to do this correctly. I don't mean discipline in the sense of
obedience or punishment. When I use the word discipline, I mean calm
compliance. It takes discipline or self control on the part of the trainer
to make the horse into a disciple or follower, to cause the horse to
willingly follow your lead.
In the animal kingdom, humans are predators and horses are prey animals. In
order to work with horses, we have to figure out how to bridge that
zoological gap. We do this by establishing a pattern, a feeling in the
horse, that we are the safest, most comfortable place in the world to be
rather than a predator out to do them harm. It is simple to describe how to
do this but hard to master the program. Here are the ground rules:
1. Pay attention. You get the horse to pay attention to you by paying
constant attention first to yourself, then to the horse. Say hello to your
friends at the barn, scratch all the dogs and shoot the breeze with the
barn manager before you head down the aisle to get your horse, not while
you're with him. Don't forget to turn off the radio or put the compact disk
player and ear buds away.
In order to pay full attention to what you are doing and what your horse is
doing, you have to put any distractions aside. You need to focus and
concentrate. If that's hard for you, start with 10 minutes and work your
way up. Eventually you want to be so focused on your horse that you
wouldn't notice if a bomb went off or someone came up alongside you waving
a million dollar check.
Pay attention to what you are thinking, to what you are doing, and to how
you are breathing. If you're thinking about what kind of pizza you want for
dinner, you're not with your horse. If you're thinking about how your horse
is going to perform at next week's show, you're not with your horse right
now. Keep monitoring your attention and bringing it back to your horse.
As you are paying attention to your horse, ask yourself what kind of
feedback he's giving you? How is he breathing? What are his eyes and his
ears signaling? Are his reactions to haltering, leading, grooming or
whatever you're doing with him the same as the last time you worked with him?
If you are paying attention to your horse, you will know when his attention
wanders from you. You don't jerk on the lead rope or spank or poke him. You
don't "correct" him or punish him. You just quietly do the smallest thing
you need to do to get his attention back on you. It might be as little a
brushing your hand against your nylon jacket to make a little noise or as
much as using some sort of pressure that makes him move his feet a little.
It's going to vary from horse to horse and it will change as the horse
spends more time with you.
2. The most important things to pay attention to are rhythm and relaxation.
You start moving rhythmically from the moment the horse can hear your voice
or footsteps or sees you coming toward his stall. Everything about your
approach should be rhythmic and relaxed. Pay attention to your breathing
because that's where it starts. Then pay attention to every movement you
make and the tension in your muscles, even your face.
As you greet the horse in his stall, put on his halter, stand him in the
aisle, start grooming, tack him up, or whatever you're doing that day, you
work with a constant sense of rhythm. From the way you buckle the halter to
the way you coil the end of the lead to the way you pick up and put down
your brushes or lay the saddle pad on the horse's back you don't speed up,
you don't slow down, and you don't let things get jerky or jittery. Rhythm.
Move your horse to the arena with rhythm, mount with rhythm, and ride with
rhythm. Rhythm is the mother of relaxation and teaching your horse that
pattern can help prevent a wreck down the road someday when something
unusual and unplanned happens. And it will.
3. Never raise the excitement level to a predatory level. Keeping yourself
rhythmic and relaxed will help you keep your wits and your patience so you
never do anything that startles the horse. Never do anything that
interrupts the feeling you want him to have that you are a safe place to
be. If something you do elevates the excitement level, you put too much
pressure on the horse. If you do something and he didn't notice it, you
need to go back and repeat the lessons about paying attention until you
both have that down.
Here's an example. If you are constantly paying attention to the horse you
will be constantly aware of what he's thinking and doing. You will start to
catch little things before they escalate into big things. You will start to
control your own reactions so that you can control the horse's reactions.
For instance, let's say you have a horse in a round pen and something
startles him and he leaves. You don't react to his leaving by increasing
the pressure and asking him for a few extra laps of the pen. That's
retribution and you are not trying to establish the pattern that if the
horse leaves when you didn't tell him to leave, he's going to get punished
Instead, if something unusual grabs his attention and raises his excitement
level to the point that he needs to leave, you just let him go and act like
nothing happened. Then you have to get his attention back before you can do
anything else. So you do the smallest thing you need to do to get his
attention back on you. Then you invite him to come back to you. Repeat.
After awhile when something startles him, he'll start
checking to see what you're doing before he leaves. If you keep acting like
nothing happened, he'll start to follow your lead and act that way, too.
4. Repeat these steps until you figure it out. You have to work on paying
attention, staying rhythmic and staying relaxed until your self control is
a pattern the horse can absolutely trust. Then you can be in control of
Don't be surprised if everything doesn't just fall neatly in place the
first day or week or even for several months when you start learning a
non-predatory way of training horses. Some folks call it "natural"
horsemanship but it doesn't come naturally to a lot of people. Developing
the mental self control that enables you to control a horse is hard work. A
lot of the old horsemen teaching this stuff took a lifetime to learn it. If
you're younger than they are, don't get discouraged. Take your time and be
as patient with yourself as you want to be with your horse.
Instructor and trainer Ron Meredith has refined his "horse logical" methods
for communicating with equines over 30 years as president of Meredith Manor
International Equestrian Centre (Route 1, Box 66, Waverly, WV 26184;
1-304-679-3128; http://www.meredithmanor.com), an ACCET accredited
equestrian educational institution.